Who hasn’t emotionally beaten themselves up for eating a
whole container of Ben and Jerry’s Cookie Dough ice cream? Or what about the
whole bag of Lay’s Potato Chips after all there tagline is you can’t eat just one and surprise you can’t! What about that
fitness plan that never really got started? Admit it, laying on the couch feels
much better that dragging out to the gym.
No matter how you slice it, diet and exercise are dirty words.
They come with frustration, disappointment, deprivation and one more failure to
add to the thousands of failures that make up your life. Who needs that? It
almost leaves you powerless and hopeless for a solution. Your only recourse is
to give up. Sound familiar?
Here’s something new to consider. You have created our life,
your relationships and your life’s work one minute at a time. Every thought,
decision and action moves you closer or further away from what you are seeking
to achieve. Happiness, fame and fortune. At least that’s what they say. Yes
some things in life happen to us however we make lots of things happen too.
The same is true with your health. Yes, you are born with familial tendencies,
heredity and genetics however you have a lot to do with your health too. With
every bite of food, every minute of missed of sleep, water we forgot to drink, step
you missed and every stress filled thought, you are creating your own health
picture.
So what does your health picture look like and what will it
look like in the future? There are some things about health everybody knows so
let’s start there.
1. Experts agree just because you are not sick right this
minute does not mean you are not brewing up a disease inside your body. Heart
disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, cancer and the like are called chronic
diseases because they happen over a long time sometimes as long as 10 years
before symptoms appear and you know it.
2. Everybody knows if you are overweight you are more likely
to develop a chronic disease. Some experts say this is not so much the weight
that causes this increased disease risk but the choices you make that result in
the weight gain. Experts disagree on the numbers of adults with chronic disease
the range being somewhere around 50 – 80% but all agree it is poor nutrition,
lack of exercise, too much stress, tobacco and alcohol use are the main contributing
factors.
3. Everybody knows what to do to eat and live healthier, or
at least have a general idea. Pretty much everybody has trouble doing it. We
all know this because according to the Centers for Disease Prevention
(http://www.cdc.gov) more than one-third (34.9% or 78.6 million) of U.S. adults are
obese. That’s more than any other time in history.
Let’s call for a health do over. It’s never too late to learn from your failures and start
over making healthier choices. All you need is more understanding of what goes
into making healthier choices, a solid plan and a support system.
Decide WHY and then
what. Instead of going straight to
what diet or lifestyle change you are going make think about WHY you want to
make these changes. Do you want to reverse a chronic disease, prevent sickness,
and watch your kids grow up, have more energy or feel better about yourself? Knowing why you are embarking on this journey
will help you make the decision right for your goals and stick it. Really sick
to it for the long haul. When deciding what be sensible, backed by research and
think of it in terms of your whole life. I recommend the One Simple Change plan
by The Juice Plus Company (http://www.YourJuicePlus.com)
Learn something new
every day about your decision
making. Choosing to drink a calorie loaded chocolate caramel coffee does
not make you bad, wrong or a failure. It just means is your plan is not
working. Instead evaluate how you came to make that decision, what the payoff
is and what the long term consequences are. Remember what your WHY is then adjust your
plan.
Make a firm
commitment to your health. A real commitment. The kind where you are all
in. No matter what it takes, never giving up kind of commitment. I think this is the hardest part. It takes time and energy to stay committed.
This level of commitment may require some hard changes. Giving up some things,
foods, activities you love like watching TV then replacing them with foods and
activities you don’t really like at first like eating more fruits and
vegetables and spending time on physical activity. In some cases you may even consider changing
your friend group. Making friends who want to be healthy just like you and
support you in your healthy choices. A firm commitment is what brings you
success, it’s the stuff great people are made of. It’s the WHY of what you are doing.
Understand your
personality. According to Thomas R.
Przybeck, PhD assistant professor of psychiatry at Washington University School
of Medicine who published a recent study on the topic of personality and diet
it’s important to know your tendencies so you can tailor your plan
accordingly. This is your support
system. Knowing what and who you need to support you is critical to your
success. Dr. Przybeck PhD has narrowed it down to five personality types.
1.
Impulsive. If you have a tendency to be impulsive you
need to remove all foods from your home or office that may tempt you from your healthy
eating goals and replace them with healthier options. If it’s the TV that’s
keeping you from your activity or sleep goals then one strategy might be to not
turn on the TV.
2. Oblivious.
If you tend to not pay attention to what you eat a good idea would be to weigh
and measure your portion sizes before you eat and keep a food diary. The USDA
website is a good place to start www.choosemyplate.gov.
A restaurant strategy would be to ask the server before serving you to divide
your meal in half put one half in a to-go container and serve you the rest.
3. Uptight.
People who are anxious tend to eat because they are nervous or depressed and
eat to feel better. If this is you a strategy would be to have a whole life
eating plan which allows you to eat as much as you want to feel better and to
schedule in your healthy activities such as 10 pm bedtime, then go to bed. A planning
a daily schedule, eating plan and a specific time to exercise generally helps
to relieve anxiety. I recommend the Transform30 plan http://www.loseweightanddetoxdiet.com.
4. Tenacious.
This personality finds it easy to lose weight and stay on a healthy living plan
because they are self-directed, cooperative and have a strong since of
commitment. If this is you look for other people who are motivated just like
you.
5. Sociable.
If you are good at monitoring your food
intake, like keeping a food diary Przybeck would classify you as a social
personality. When it comes to exercise we will find you at the gym with your
exercise buddy.
Reboot do over. Success comes from starting and
restarting over and over again until you find a plan that works for you. Once you know why you are building your
healthy life you will know what to do to make it happen. If you are unsure seek
the help and support of a certified health coach, dietitian or qualified medical
professional to help guide you towards a solid healthy life plan. Your plan may
need some modifications, tweaking over time and sometimes even an overhaul.
After all life happens with all the upsets. That’s ok. When you are ready, take
a deep breath, have a moment of silence to be grateful for what you do have,
recommit then call for a reboot do over! We’ll all be there cheering you on.
This article is from Small Biz Forward, a monthly magazine for small to medium business owners, and entrepreneurs.
Your partner in health,
Cindy Cohen RN, BS BA
Certified Health Coach
Wellness Consultant
WELCOA Faculty
Health-E 4 Life Worksite Wellness